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The Evolving Scenario of Indian marriage

Legally, a recent advance was made in favor of the protection of women in Indian Marriage. In 2006, the president of the Indian union Abdul Kalam Azad approved the bill on domestic violence. This bill contains many texts that place the rights of woman and men on an equal level:

Indian Marriage

Rights you have in Indian Marriage:

  • The man can no longer force his wife to have unwanted relationships
  • Banning bigamy in Indian marriage
  • Prohibition of marriage of children
  • Prohibition of forced marriages
  • The divorce without fault is recognized.

But of course, these innovations within the family and the traditional patterns that compose it have not delighted everyone, such as the foundation to save the Indian family.

But Indian society began to evolve in spite of the requests of the traditionalists. In 2007,

  • 14% of marriages ended in divorce, compared with only 5% in 1980
  • In cities,the average age of marriage of women is included in 26 and 30 years
  • 25% of city dwellers choose their partner, which was still impassable a few years ago
  • 1/5 of women have a clean income in cities

Obviously, this situation is displeasing to many men who see this independence very badly. For them the woman must be accommodating, not to complain and to be devoted in spite of the sufferings. But other men consider this vision outdated, and that these new laws will allow greater equality between the rights and duties of both spouses. Attention is important to note that there is a very important gap between the conceptions of people living in cities that are more open to the role of women, whereas, in the countryside, where tradition is still deeply rooted, the woman must retain her traditional role.

Although this law is a true legal evolution for women in India, the major problem remains its application. Each year 50 million women are still victims of domestic violence in India and only 0.1% of them file complaints.

There is still a long way to go so that the good feelings, love stories, and Indian marriage in Bollywood movies become a reality for Indian women.

 

 

 

Significance of Bidaai Ceremony in Marathi Shaadi

Maharashtra wedding tradition rituals #8

What Bidaai ceremony  in Marathi  Shaadi signifies?

And the last ritual is 'Bidaai Ceremony', this is the  time when the Marathi bride officially leave her home, her loved ones and she goes to a new home & life. In Bidaai ceremony, after the kanyadaan the Marathi bride is taken to her home where she is accompanied by her close family. She is given a thali filled with rice & coins and then she proceeds outside towards the door, then she throws handfuls of rice & coins over her head....This moment is very emotional.

Bidaai ceremony

 

She hugs her mom and dad and then she bids a final farewell as they cry with full of emotion of giving her away & at the same time they give lots of blessing to her. The father of the bride finally takes her to the car and then he hands his daughter to the groom. This is one of the most emotional moment for bride’s family member.

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Significance of Vivah homa and Satapadi rituals

Maharashtra wedding tradition rituals #7

What really Vivah homa and Satapadi means?

In Vivah homa, a stone is kept near the west of fire (Homekund) and a pot containing water is kept to the northeast. A pot full of ghee is also kept nearby. The pandit then asks the bridal couple to take an oath of the marriage. The groom then prays to the fire and asks to make them pure and away from evil. They also ask for children and their long lives.

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Now in Satapadi, the bride touches seven beetle nuts by her right foot for holy blessings. Beetle nuts are usually placed on top of the rice. So on the last part, the bride then puts her right foot on a grindstone. The groom holds her hand and supports her in this. This basically symbolizes that in future she needs to be strong like stone and her husband will always support her.

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Significance of Kanyadaan ceremony in Marathi wedding

Maharashtra wedding tradition rituals #6

What Kanyadaan ceremony signifies?

Kanyadaan ceremony is one of the most important and popular rituals in Marathi wedding. This ceremony is very emotional for the bride and her parents.  In this ceremony, the parents of the bride give away their daughter to the groom.  So now its groom’s responsibility to take proper care of her and to give her lots of love.

Kanyadaan Ceremony

The pandit asks the groom to join his palm and then he asks the bride’s mother to pour the holy water on groom’s palm. While the bride’s father request groom to accept his daughter as his life partner. The bride also promises that she will always stand by his husband no matter what the condition arises. She also asks her husband to never go against his limits and to love her unconditionally. The marriage rituals continue after Kanyadaan ceremony is completed.

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